An Indonesian woman is shaken after learning her husband of 10 months is actually a woman – despite the fact that they ‘have had sex frequently’.
The 22-year-old wife – identified only as NA – has now filed charges against her ex-husband for cheating.
“I’m still scared. I shake when I go out,” the abandoned bride reportedly said in a report in local newspaper Tribun News.
According to the website, NA first met his wife – who went by the name Ahnaf Arrafif – on the dating app Tantan last year.
Arrafif claimed to be a New York-trained doctor, and the two quickly hit it off over text.
The pair met in person in May 2021 after Arrafif traveled to NA’s hometown of Jambi. Arrafif proposed soon after and they married in July.
NA admitted to being intimate with her spouse during their marriage, saying she believed they had had penetrative sex.
However, she admitted that she was told to ‘not look directly at Arrafif’s genitals’ and that her ‘eyes were covered with a cloth’ whenever things got steamy.
NA also alleged that Arrafif only undressed with the lights off, so the sex took place “in a state of blackout”, Suara.com reports.
While NA’s mother was reportedly charmed by Arrafif before the wedding, she quickly grew suspicious when it emerged he had no job.
Arrafif moved in with NA and his mother and soon began asking for money. Over the next few months, the ingesting NA mom became increasingly convinced that her “son-in-law” was a fraudster. She also began to doubt that Arrafif was a man and tried to obtain identification.
Last April, she finally confronted Arrafif and ordered him to strip. At that time, Arrafif allegedly admitted to being a woman who was actually called Erayani Arrafif.
NA and his mother contacted the police and Arrafif was reportedly charged with fraud.
The scammer admitted to the cops that they tricked NA into thinking she was having penetrative sex using her fingers.
It is currently unclear whether Arrafif faces a prison sentence if convicted of fraud. A hearing date has not yet been announced.
